April 2, 2017

We’re all like a flower in a huge garden surrounded by so many other flowers who differ in size, shape, smell and of course needs! Some need a lot of water and healthy soil, while some they survive on just a lil amount of it. 

The need to write this blog and the deep interest to jot it down is just to make you understand the love- you deserve.

 As we’re growing up soon, most 
of our life’s decision are taken by us, we avoid seeking people’s help because we find ourselves superior and more experienced; experienced because we think the new people, new bond We’d started to share has taught us a lot. And YOU- “an inexperienced yet experienced soul” starts to get close to so many people thinking you’ll handle them alone peacefully and orderly. Is it? Will you be able to figure out the likes and dislikes? Will you be able to handle their moods, all of theirs mood at once? In this cycle of new relationships, we become so busy and glittery that we forget that there’s somebody deep down too who needs your relation you’d forgotten with. That somebody who needs a relationship is nobody unknown but yes somebody blurred. Somebody who never left you but somebody who faded in so many people’s shadow, set free in your mind! 

What? Who are you thinking about? Somebody new, or your love, or your friend, best friend, girlfriend boyfriend, family or anybody?

Nopes honey! Don’t think so much. 

When was the last time you enjoyed yourself alone? When did you just opened your living room’s curtain and sat on the sofa, stress free with a calm and wild side at the same time? When was the last time you opened your family album and recalled how kiddish and smart you were and now how over smart you are? When was the last time you watched a movie alone with lots of popcorn waiting for you to eat them up all alone? 

Now, we live alone, we enjoy being alone but only when somebody had hurt us and when we realize that we alone are better enough. But that’s not what I want to convey! Love everybody, from the soil that’s giving you food to the sky that’s giving you rain. Love everybody but LOVE YOURSELF too. No matter the bud besides you has bloomed or not, you do rejoice! Love yourself: but how? You’ll love yourself when you’ll handle relationships in a proper way. We’re surrounded by so many relations, too many. And each and every new day we make new relations but when will that day come? 

A day where you’ll stay committed to yourself? A day you’ll pamper yourself not by putting tons of makeup but by having a real smile. Where’s the day when you’ll laugh wholeheartedly. Come on, buddy! You got just this one life, you never know when will it end. Love yourself. Make good memories for yourself too. 

Be your own best friend. Why wait for somebody else to do that? Why can’t we grow ourselves up in emotional matters or self matters too? 

My dear, your soul needs you too. Your inner self is calling you loud. When will you help yourself? Give yourself some time. Little time. A few minutes will work, though. 

Meditate, practise your hobbies or whatever you love. But remember, do something which will let you disconnect from everybody for some time. You can do that? Ah…Yes! Close the room, shut the door, dance crazily, sing out loud, but it shouldn’t hurt anybody…xD! 

Be, accept, value, forgive, bless, express, trust, love yourself. It won’t be selfishness and if it is nobody should mind because you’re somebody worth spending time on. We complain about not being able to cope our problems, life’s unfair and blah blah! Why is it so? Ever thought? Because you’re now not listening your heart, your soul. You’re doing what other’s do, which isn’t good, kinda! 

But wait, this doesn’t means doing everything by yourself deciding and going with the flow. Nah. You yourself know how matured you are, so take care about it. Your soul will help you. 

Grow your own set of arms, to wrap around your inner harms. Hug yourself and squeeze tight, as much as you feel alone at night. Remember you’re right here, treat and hold your self dear.

Love yourself and you’ll be loved. Love yourself and life and people will love you back. Be completely yourself.! Eventually a flower in the garden doesn’t blooms by seeing it’s nearby lil ones, it blooms and modifies because it’s capable of, because it’d helped itself a lot more than the gardener did. And loving yourself doesn’t simply means disconnecting yourself from everybody- Remember, when you’ll die, you’ll need four shoulders to be carried on and left to the destination.

Lots of Love.

LOVE YOURSELF, PAL